Ever wonder?...

Have you ever wonder if you have done or said something to someone which had been wrongly understood? OR is that someone just plain stupid and full of excuses and start making up new excuses which does not make sense anymore?... or it is just me?...

What did i do wrong?

I NEED to know.

DO let me know.

Thanks.

A wise man once told me...

" If you and your partner are arguing in the car on the way to your parents' house, as soon as you reach there, put up a straight face and act as per normal. Do NOT show anyone that you are actually in a middle of an argument. Once you are back into the car, you can continue the argument to resolve the issues between the two of you... "

I have always kept that in mind since I had a brief chat with one particular wise couple...

I am now preparing myself to be a husband also a leader of a family.

Being a husband, there is a BIG responsibility not only to myself but also to my spouse and later on, to my children.

I take my dad as an example for me to follow once I start my own family.

NO ONE are perfect in this world. Not ME, not my mom, not my siblings but somehow my dad managed to handle everything smoothly. Never once I hear them have any serious argument for the past 27 years living with them.

But slowly as I grow older and mature, I have been told that there seemed to be quite a few incidents that had happened before which were not transparent to us kids and they managed to resolve the issue between the two of them without any involvement from any other parties.

I guess as they grow old together, they came to a point where they can really tolerate each other and understand each other without the need to say or mention in words.

I believe that should be the way in any relationship. A couple should be transparent to each other and not to the rest of the world. Whatever that happens between a couple, should remain between the couple.

It is okay to share with your close friends, but NOT to the whole wide world even through the world wide web.

It is okay to share so that we could let off some steam, but there is not a need to broadcast it on Twitter, MySpace, Friendster, Facebook...

This is purely because everyone have their own set of mind. Different people, different way of thinking.

A simple sentence can be interpreted differently by different people.

A simple sentence can make different people have different perspective of an object that is being talked about.

A simple sentence can make different people discriminate an object without knowing the real facts.

True enough, words are like bees; they have honey and they have sting...

To conclude,

NEVER get a third party involvement as it would make things even worse.

BE TRANSPARENT only to certain people that you trust and love.

NEVER let the whole wide world know about any issues between a couple.

ALWAYS THINK thoroughly of the CONSEQUENCES of each and every act you do or words that you say.

and last but not least;

ALWAYS MAKE SURE to protect the DIGNITY of others...


Thank you Mr and Mrs wise man...

Let's see... where do i start?

Hmm.... as the title suggests... where do i start?...

A LOT had happened for the past two years.... when i say a lot.. it is really... A LOT...

So, i have decided to make bullet points, easy reading and i can add up as i go...

Work:

1) I have moved to another company... that is the main reason why I have not been updating. I have been too busy with work... which company?... I ain't telling! but I can tell you it is in KL.

2) Why I change job you ask? The previous company has shut down its operation in Cyberjaya.

3) Within nearly 2 years being with this new company, I have been promoted (salary and position) a couple of times. :)

4) I have also travelled to Hong Kong and set up an office there!

5) I am very much happy working with this company and don't plan to go anywhere else just yet... ;)

Life (in general):

1) There has been ups and downs...

2) Joined Gym. I was active for a while... but not anymore... haha

3) There hasnt been much wedding works... but there'll be one major project soon... :D

4) I've become quite a homely person... lazy to go out... since i have installed Astro in my room.... hehehe...

5) Not much partying nowadays... getting old... hahahah

6) Been to Bali 4 times now! Going again in January! Can't wait!

Love:

1) No more international. Going Local now. hahaha.

2) Engaged and soon to be married!

3) I love my future wife very much!!

4) Today is her birthday.

5) I sindiket this post to her.

That is all for now. I will be back... !

Wow!

Oh my... it has already been about 2 years since i last update this blog... and suddenly... i feel like blogging again... or do i?....

i will let you guys to wait a bit more... hahaha...

Counting days...

So it's official now. I have already received the offer letter from a company and i will start on Jan 2, 2008. I will most probably commute by train to work as it may cost more if i were to drive. I'm quite sure the parking alone will cost alot.

I need to go shop for new shirts. The ones that i have now, cant really fit me anymore... i mean.. they still fit.... theyre all still a perfect fit... too 'perfect', til you can see my lovely and sexy body shape... i can't really wear such shirts to work, can i? heheh.

Two more weeks to go... last day on Dec 28. not sure how i am goin to feel on that day. sad? happy?... time will only tell...

going for a wedding this weekend in Port Dickson. Did her hantarans. She picked em up yesterday, and she was happy with my work. Alhamdulillah. That reminds me, what am i going to wear for the wedding????? ... i think i have something in my wardrobe... i think.... and i should pack!!.. gorsh.. so many things to do.......

It's been a hectic week!

Well, not really.. haha.. my manager came on Tuesday and Wednesday. Had team lunch with him and my colleagues (plus the one in KL) and I got to choose the place. He said, "Anywhere you guys like as long as the place accepts AMEX". I asked around, most of them suggested to just go to a hotel restaurant. So i booked a table at this italian restaurant in Marriott Putrajaya called Tuscany. Didn't think its goin to be very posh!!! ha ha! too bad. At least i get to 'feel' the company's money. glad that i can contribute. heh heh heh.

So yesterday, the site manager approached me and told me that i might be offered by my company something that i can never resist. He said i can say no to the offer, but a few years down the road, i might regret letting down the offer. this is just great. they love to add more misery to my life. dont they know my brain is not actively fucntioning and i am loving that state. lol.

today, 3 people just left the company. i have already collected the laptops from them. im goin to update some reports. then go home. la la la. TGIF!!!

maybe i'll go out dancing tonight... :)

Aaack!

So last Thursday i got to know that my manager is coming down from Kulim on the 4th and 5th Dec, which is tomorrow and the day after tomorrow.

the end.

I'm late!!

no i'm not pregnant. lol.

last night, went to the airport to send off a dear friend who will be working in Dubai. His flight was at 4am and we reached the airport at about 1am. Said our goodbyes, etc, got home at about 4am. At the airport, i had set the alarm on my mobile to wake me up at 630am (for work, etc). So as soon as i got home, i went straight to bed.

guess what, I woke up at 918am!!! did i rush? NO. ha ha! Called up my colleague and told him i'm going to be a bit late. showered, had breakfast, drove off and reached the office by 1015am.

later after work going to stop over at the fresh flower shop, to get some roses and etc for the hand bouquet and the sirih junjung...

la la la la la

it's a beautiful dayyy!!